Friday, January 11, 2008

Wills and Chills

There's a chilly rain falling outside. Our spring thaw has turned into freezing rain. It's horrible.
The damp and cold make Hubby tired and lethargic - and depressed. Even though we have a nice, warm, cozy house, somehow the dampness sneaks its way in and seeps into his bones.

That's why we were discussing "Wills" this morning. Hubby discusses his Will and our investments when he is depressed.
He wants to make sure I will be O.K.
I find it hard to hold back tears. I'm trying to be objective, but it still hurts.

He gets upset if I get upset, so I focus on remaining detached - as if this is a discussion about somebody else.

I know I should be counting my blessings. I have a Hubby who cares about me deeply; one who wants to make sure I am looked after when he goes.
But.... does he really have to go??

1 comment:

JOY said...

It's taken me a year to get my name on the registration of all his vehicles. The house I inherited from my wonderful father.It's good to take care of financial matters of that nature anyway even if there is no illness to deal with.
It is impossible to change the course of those whom God has called to Him. It's a cruel world at times when small children die from cancer. I think secretly what we all want is to go quickly, since we all get a round trip ticket in this life & we all have to make the journey~